Fraanships.The good, the bad and the eXXtremely ugly!!part 2

Every now and then life decides to play some sick game with you and brings in some fabulous actors who play their parts incredibly well and make sure you’re on a joy ride to relationship hell. You have this bogus illusion that these people are in fact your BEST FRIENDS EVER and are so blessed and all that to have such great people around you, who love you and listen your songs and other crap and in some strange way there is a small voice in some distant corner of you that says-‘dude! this is too good to be true. Will it last man?’. And prada!. These very people, your ostensibly best buds, will in time take out their knives and shred your little bubble and leave you feeling like a loser 10 times over. Bottom-line-Instant friendships don’t really sustain because deep down its one big, black fathomless pit of nothingness and that lovely paint that blankets the exterior will seep away once the rains come.

That being some weird intro that did not end up as I expected to this is what I actually wanted to say on this post.(you’ll get your answers to the intro on my next post). I’ve read somewhere that we of superior intellect and inferior virtues, on a conscious or subconscious level arrange our friends in concentric circles.( at this moment you might feel that ive gone hopelessly off track. Please stay with me for a little bit longer, you lovely thing) Let me expand on that statement.

At the border we have our general circle of friends who make the cut because they are not our enemies and the chances of them taking out their shacks and sticking us first chance they get, are pretty low. These are the people we meet every random day because they happened to be in the neighborhood ( thank you Spiderman!) and they have a hi-bye relationship with us. Still we don’t want them very close because they’re in fact either extremely boring or are extremely competitive that they knock you out of your limelight. But its good keeping tabs on these people because you never know when these connections might come in handy. It might even save your life( Moment of poignant contemplation). Allrighty then!.

In the 2nd circle are those friends who are pretty close but for some reason didn’t take it to the next step. These are the people whom you are pretty comfortable with having around and invariably get invited to all the parties u host etc etc. They, more often than not, have a vague picture of what’s happening in your life and you can tell them almost everything. They will back almost all of your crazy ideas though they know it will land you in a bigger shithole than the one you’re already in just because they don’t want to lose your friendship and your parties rock! Great food, great music, hardly any chicks because chicks are a theoretical concept as far as the domestic party circuit in Kerala goes.

Then there’s the innermost circle. Only the elite make it this far and once they do the do they’re staying there probably till you’re up there kissing the daisies. These are the people who know you inside out; people you’ve bared your confused soul to. And the funny thing is they are not repulsed or bored by it because of one simple reason. They Love You. And this is is the real deal my brethren (not the kind of slush they dish out each day on the media). They probably said no to a lot of your idiocy because they knew that you would end up with your tail behind your legs and you hated them for that. At least temporarily. However thats all it is..Temporary and next day, a nice treat at the Coffee shop later, we’re back baby!!!!haha. Personally these are the people I see dreams about getting old together and laughing listening to stories. stories that are being scripted right now. Like I said this is the real deal.

I’ll continue this next time at let me give you a hint-Its not gonna be as pretty as Barbie!!!!!whatever!!